THIS guy doesn’t want the ladies to trim down there either…I’m old fashioned that way.

1) Have sex with women they would ABSOLUTELY not want to have a child with.

This could be one of two things: either a lack of foresight on the man’s part or general indifference. Guys are less selective because they don’t have to be. Forgive my crudeness, but a hole is a hole. For men, sex is two parts physical to one part emotional. The act is more important than the feelings that go along with it, so a woman’s physical composure often receives more attention than her clothes, personality, hair, etc.

2) Say they don’t want a woman who’s interested in their money, but when they meet a woman that’s all they talk about.

Culture teaches both sides to be superficial, so this one is a push. I’d say some is ego-driven and the rest is out of defense. Yes, defense. Women write off guys based on how they look, what they wear, and what they do for a living. In order to avoid being written off, a man will show women what he thinks she wants, just so he has a fighting chance.

4) Ask for your phone number, but instead of calling sends text messages.

I’d say a good 90% of my male friends text back and forth. Unless we’re close friends, guys DON’T call each other. Words are the simplest form of communication and men are simple by nature. Telephone conversations open the door to tell signs such as tone, vocal inflection, and background noise – all three which send messages which that guy might not want to send.

5) Express their interest in a woman, when they’re unavailable.

From his POV, there’s no harm in letting her know you’re interested when there’s no pressure to do follow anything up. It’s a safe compliment which opens the door for a future relationship if the current one doesn’t work out.

6) Don’t approach women they’re interested in.

Fear of rejection, embarrassment, and pride. No one likes to have their feelings hurt, and the easiest way to get hurt is to have the proverbial door slammed in your face.

7) Think if they tell a woman the truth, she won’t be able to handle it.

Because normally she won’t be able to handle it. Sometimes, telling the truth is the meanest thing you can do to a person because usually, the truth hurts. Deep down, people want to protect other people. A woman won’t respect you for telling her she isn’t pretty/smart/funny enough to be with you. At that point, you just become a jerk.

8.) Say they don’t like drama, but are always in relationships with crazy women.

For the same reason women say they want Mr. Perfect, but end up dating the “problem” guy in hopes that she (being the glorious being that she is) will be the one to change him into Mr. Perfect.

The only one I wasn’t feeling was #4 from “The serial monogamous” – video games are fun. You might want to try them out (maybe it can be a bonding experience for you and your S.O.)